It’s been two weeks now since I started my new job in the hospital…well strictly speaking I am not working within the NHS as hospital staff but with a separate organisation that rents office space within the hospital. It’s been a huge change for me, working in London and in public sector. ‘A great opportunity’ as everyone tells me. Over the last week everyone has been asking me the same question…’How is your new job going?” I look enthusiastic smiling as I say how I’m settling in, how everything is all good. And it’s all lies. Because I can’t tell them the truth. The truth is, it’s awful.
I’m not settling, not getting used to it one bit. Waking up at 6am after only a few hours sleep to drag my half asleep self onto a claustrophobic train. 40 minutes of trying not to think about the fact I’m not breathing right, that I feel faint. Willing myself not to have a panic attack during rush hour.
I am the youngest person in my department by a long shot, and without a doubt the least educated. Unlike my other offices this is not a place of sociable chat, this is a place of superior people who wouldn’t give you the time of day. With 5 minutes of training I was plunged in well over my head, tasks I had no knowledge on thrown at me with no guidance. Emails coming in faster than I can read them! Overwhelming is an understatement! I don’t know half the people in this organisation yet I have managed to piss off most of them. Snarky emails, condescending tones and stern telling’s off.
Everyday I sit in the canteen by myself barely able to eat, drinking coffee like my life depends on it just to stay alert. Everyday I’m locked in the toilet having a quiet breakdown. Everyday I leave work with a crippling depression, fighting back tears on the train home. Every night I drink to force myself into a state of numbness, and every night I think the same thing – how am I going to live like this?
I’m well aware it’s been only two weeks and it can take a long time to get used to a new job. But honestly, the more people I meet, the more stressful tasks and added responsibilities I receive, the more I start to realise things are only going to get worse.