It’s been a month since we signed the lease on an affordable, newly renovated 1 bedroom apartment that we hoped to be our first home together, and I’m writing this blog post from my old bedroom at my mum’s house. You know how they say beauty is only skin deep…well what seemed like a great opportunity has become a nightmare!
It’s true the apartment was newly renovated, but by no means was it done well! In the short time we have spent there we’ve had everything from major plumbing issues and faulty electrics to curtain rails that literally fell off the wall. We’ve had sewage blockages, damp and fly infestation.
When you marry someone you also marry their family, and when you rent a property it comes with the surrounding neighbours. Unfortunately for us on the ground floor our upstairs neighbours are unbelievable loud and unpleasant. To the extent we can rarely sleep before 3am.
We’ve been unfortunately gifted (like many people) with awful landlords, unwilling to do anything that might be any effort or money. Along with a letting agency who are virtually uncontactable! Renting standards and renters rights in this country and truly appalling, with so many of us being charged crazy prices for unfair living conditions. Being locked into an agreement with uncooperative landlords and neighbours there is very little we can do but count down the months until we can leave! (due to the sewage and infestation issues we are currently back staying with parents)
It has been a huge disappointment after waiting so long to get a place together for it to be such a horrible experience. Obviously the impact on my mental health has been so severe I am back in regular therapy trying to get some control on my anxiety. Not a great start to 2021